How long do you wait?

How long does a person wait until it becomes unbearable? Recently during a CT scan a lump was found, The oncologist said we could wait and see or treat. The reality is I have been on chemo so much it has effected my other vital organs so to be conservitive I elected to wait. Every day when I feel so fatiqued that I can barely open my eyes, I wonder if the tumor is causing this. Taking a walk, I get winded and have to lay down to recover. Yesterday I took care of my grandbaby overnight, by the time I made it home, I was exhausted. I fell asleep for hours. As wonderful as it was to care for the little one, it took so much out of me.

I wonder how long I should wait. Should I force the issue and demand treatment or just let it be.

I am tired, I am feeling lost. When does it really become unbearable.